Wednesday, November 30, 2011

ROCKING IN SKIEN -NORWAY-MY WAY

                                                     counting sheep
When the phone rang last night at 11:30, I was wide awake. I couldn't get the visions of the wedding and reception out of my mind.
"Annie, you slipped off!! Surely you know that Asta and I will take you by car to Skien tomorrow morning!! You don't have to catch that old train!!" When Eve has "spoken" that is it!! And I admit I was delighted she called. It would be wonderful to have a few more days with SISTERS.
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This morning we hit the road!! Asta was having more fun driving on the road to Skien. You'd think we needed a food supply to last for years!! Eve had brought much of the reception food and punch for us to have along the way. We talked endlessly about who said what and who wore what at the wedding. "Bethuna's mother looked nice." ---an example. We couldn't quite let go of yesterday. 


This is Hwy E 18; but there was not a lot of traffic. But it was hilly country, so we didn't make great time.




   Skien is home to 85,000
people. Historically it was Norway's main shipping port for timber. It was founded before l,000 AD. This town isn't just wrapped up in history. There are lots of fun things going on. Elton John performed at Skagerak Arena in 2009. Next to that arena is Stevneplassen with car shows, concerts, flea markets and an annual trade fair with entertainment and a small amusement park. Only several weeks ago Nicklas and Bethuna had driven over for Alan Jackson concert.                  But we were here to visit the Telemark museum, which includes the Henrik Ibsen's home where he lived during his boyhood  and other historical homes.  It is 3 miles from Skien. The house is furnished with objects actually used by the Ibsen family from 1835 to l843. The dark attic was the inspiration for THE WILD DUCK. Two paintings are by Ibsen, who at first wanted to be an artist. But his wife talked him into writing plays. She said that she gave the world a great dramatic talent but spared it a mediocre artist!! Dudn't that beat all??!

Read more: http://www.frommers.com/destinations/skien/A32457.html#ixzz1fCGXRmReIt had stopped raining, so we parked the car. It was only a short walk from the center of town. It was Henry who had reminded us that Ibsen would walk from his home to the Grand Cafe in the Grand Hotel (where we stayed) every day for lunch with his friends. When we were in Oslo we surely passed the Ibsen home where he lived the last eleven years of his life.  We had gone to the National Theater and the Royal Palace, which were close by. Now we are so sorry we missed it. But we would visit his boyhood home.

This proved to be a sad story. The first fifteen years of his life in Skien was a "class journey from prosperity to poverty.'Until the summer of 1834 they had been one of the most prosperous families in Skien. But in one year it all changed. The authorities shut down the distilled spirits boiler. Then the family was completely thrown into poverty. Ibsen lived 27 years in Italy and Germany.  During his most productive years, he rarely visited Norway. This struck me as sad, and I almost wished we hadn't come.  I had been so uplifted when I visited Grieg's home. But I was disappointed with Ibsen's home. Obviously there were happier times for him when he lived the last 11 years of his life in Oslo.
We read on the walls there:
  • Ibsen’s Skien
    During the time when Ibsen lived in Skien the town was one of the largest in Norway. Skien was, due to an extensive shipping and timber trade, a town with close ties to Europe. Cultural impulses, ideas and artefacts from the continent and England were rapidly transmitted to the merchant citizenry of Skien.
  • The years at Venstøp
    Henrik Ibsen lived at Venstøp from the age of 7 until he was 15 years old, together with his three brothers, sister Hedvig and parents
  • Farewell to Skien 
    In November 1843 Henrik Ibsen travelled with the boat named "Lykkens prøve" to Grimstad where he worked as an apothecary’s apprentice up until 1850. For the rest of his life he had little contact with the family. In a letter to Bjørnstjerne Bjørnson dated 09 December 1867 he wrote: "You know that I for all of my life have retreated from my own parents, from my entire family, because I could not remain in a relationship of compromised understanding?"Foto: Cecilie AuthenFoto: Cecilie Authen We walked around the grounds of other lovely old homes which are part of the museum. But in ONLY ONE HOME had lived a boy who would become Norway's leading playwright.  Brand, Peer Gynt, A Doll's House, Hedda Gabler, Ghosts, The Wild Duck and many other great plays would be written long after he left this childhood home.. Wha-da-I know? But I am thinking this childhood grief and disappointment played a part in his great writing.
  • Eve, Asta and I were hungry. We went back to the car and continued eating from the wedding reception food. The lemon crusted chicken was especially good cold. We had an auto-picnic. We wanted to kick off our shoes and talk about Ibsen some more.
  • Thon Hotel HøyersI got us some rooms in one of the best hotels in Skien. I had unlimited monopoly money, so I was looking for the best for the SISTERS and me to spend out last time together.
  • We had dinner at SI SENIOR RESTAURANT. You might laugh at our eating Mexican food for my last dinner in Norway. Nevertheless, it was delicious. Si Senor
  • Bedroom HoyersOur three rooms were similar to this one. 
  • Tomorrow we would arise early to see some of the landscape where the famous HEROES OF TELEMARK ("heavy water") sabotage story took place. We had all three seen the movies. But as we read more, we realized that the building there now is (obviously) not  the one that was blown up. We decided on driving to the general area and see the spectactular scenery there but not go all the way to present day plant/museum. 
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  • Our last morning together came. Although we still had lots of food from the cake table still in the car, we wanted bacon and eggs and plenty of coffee. Happily, we found a great cafe right in the hotel.
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  • We headed for Rjukan. Here is a picture of Gaustatoppen mountain.The scenery was spectacular. The town is long and narrow. 
Heavy water was a by product from making fertilizer in this plant. The Germans wanted it to use in developing the atom bomb.
One or many waterfalls in the area. Of course we had seen similar scenery on our Bergen Rail ride. But it seemed different by car.

 I decided not to return to Skien; I could catch the bus in Rjukan to the Oslo airport.

Sisters would drive on back to Stavanger through Skien. 

We pretended we would see each other soon. No tears; they waited until I got on the bus before they drove away.  We waved and threw kisses. SISTERS, I'll never forget you, ever!!

Rjukan Ekspressen, Norway - Photo: Bjørn Iversen
I got a seat by a window. It was starting to rain again. I looked out the window as the raindrops hit the glass. The many things that happened during my time in Norway seem to flood over me.  I closed my eyes. I was so tired. The trip was catching up with this old lady. I fell asleep.
When I awoke, I was in my own bed in Memphis. My son was frying eggs and my husband was making coffee.  Our refrigerator was making funny little sounds like it does when making ice.
"Ya'll...whatever you're fixing in there, I want some too!"

                                      
To you who have climbed into my rocking chair with me, I say that there will be other trips in addition to the three already on the blog. I need to catch my breath.

When I know more, I'll tell YOU MORE!
Love, annie in memphis  





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Tuesday, November 29, 2011

ROCKING AT A NORWEGIAN WEDDING AND RECEPTION


Would you believe at 10 am I was still sleeping soundly. 
Woman asleep in bed having a dream clipart                
 I thought I was at home in Memphis when I heard the tapping on the door.
"Hurry, Annie. We have a lot to do before the wedding."
"WE? WHAT?" I responded. So the next thing you know we were heading toward a beauty salon, of all things. 
"Annie, beauty parlors weren't so popular here until about 5 years ago. Now they are the going thing. Bethuna suggested we go, and that means YOU have to go too!"haha 
"But, but, ....." My protests were useless. I guess I couldn't continue with my persona of the rich eccentric (somewhat tacky) American!!
SISTERS and I always do our own hair; but I must confess our several hours at the skjønnhetssalongen were well spent. 


Woman Spraying Hair Spray on a Client's Hair clipart                        Stylist Combing a Woman's Hair clipart                                     Cartoon of a Woman Getting Her Hair Done clipart

It was almost 2 pm when we got back to my hotel. I ordered food to be sent up to my room, so we could kick off our shoes  and talk in privacy. They were amused about Bethuna's relatives being so pushy. They wanted Nicklas to wear a bundas. Eve explained,
"Traditionally the groom wears a hand-made woolen suit. It has a white silk shirt, short pants and stockings that come up to the calf, a vest and top coat. The bundas is covered with intricate & colorful design. Here is a picture, Annie. Can you imagine Nicklas wearing it?
Many people think the bundas makes a man look like a Norwegian prince."
Asta said, "No way!! Nicklas says he may work in Norway and even will be marrying a Norwegian girl, but he is 100% American!!"He will wear a black tux.
Bethuna has decided against wearing the traditional bridal clothes, also. The crowns make tinkling sounds which are supposed to ward off evil spirits."-- another picture.
 They said that Bethuna will wear a white bridal gown and veil. Some of the guests, however, will be wearing bundas and other Norwegian garb.
I put on my new blue dress. Then Eve and Asta went home to get dressed.
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The time for the wedding was at 4 pm; we arrived at 3:30 and waited in the car until we saw folks lining up for the march into the church. The fiddle players led the way with the bride and groom close behind, then the parents (Asta and Eve would walk as parents)bridesmaids, ring bearer, flower girls and eager guests (including me) came last. It was gorgeous September day.   
                 
There was 5 minutes of bell ringing.  
Then we entered the church. Organ music was played. Nicklas and Bethuna went up the nave together and sat together.  Other members of wedding party, and visitors came in.

Everyone was given a program of worship in both Norwegian and English.

After lessons from St.John, Genesis, and St. Mathew, the vows were made and rings were exchanges.



                          

Then they went to the altar and knelt for the laying on of hands. In addition to the minister, many went forward to lay hands on the couple. I found it so touching that Eve and Asta laid hands on the heads of Nicklas and Bethuna. They were both crying, but happy.

              

                             The Lord bless and keep you 
                 Lord make his face to shine upon you
                 and be gracious to you. The Lord lift up 
                  his countenance upon you 
                 and give you peace+

We all said, "Amen."  Then as recessional was played on an accordian, the newlyweds  and all the loved ones left this exquisite service.
 Bell ringing again for 5 minutes
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Norwegian Wedding Traditions facsimile of newly weds facsimile of Nicklas and Bethuna

We then gathered at the home of Bethuna's  parents. Wonderful food awaited us. We served ourselves smorgasboard style.

vOnion-Crusted Salmon. Photo by breezermom Onion crusted salmon
Andreas Viestad's Vodka Marinated SirloinMarinated sirlonFresh Cucumber Slices With Smoked Salmon and Wasabi Cream Potato Bakepotato
Creamed Cabbage- Norwegian StylecabbageParsnip Pancakes With Smoked Fish and Caper Sour CreamParsnip pancakes. with smoked fish

There were so many dishes that I didn't list them all. But everything was so delicious. It was not catered. Bethuna's mother and some of her friends prepared it all. We "helped" ourselves and sat down at a long table set up for this occasion.

The toast master called on the many people who wanted to say something. Most of them spoke only in Norwegian. But when everyone else laughed, so did I!! Some people sang special songs. The mood was very happy!!

Then the Norwegian wedding cake table.
Norwegian Wedding Cake
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In addition to the main wedding cake, there are other cakes on the table also.  The bride and groom had requested friends also bring cakes. We served ourselves and had coffee. By then it was 10:00 pm.
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I was ready for bed; but it was time for dancing. They managed to shove the furniture in such a way that dancing was possible.
The big surprise was when Nicklas and Bethuna came out in the Norwegian clothes (as a compromise to Bethuna's parents!)
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I had looked online for a list of appropriate wedding gifts; 
TRIP caught my eye. So quietly I had booked them on  the Hurtigruten Cruise in the Grand Suite. Then to top it off,  I booked a trip for a different time for Asta and Eve also in the Grand Suite. Being rich on monopoly money is great. I have never tried to explain to them about the monopoly money. I just said I have come into some money from a secret source that stipulates it can only be spent on travel!! I slipped a note into Eve's purse explaining. I'm told the guests will not leave until the wee hours of the morning. First they will have soup and sandwiches to see them off into the night.
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I quietly called a cab and slipped away back to my hotel. I have come to love these wonderful people from Enderlin, N. Dakota.
I'll tell you more when I know more. Tomorrow I will go to Skien. Love, annie